Let $F_1(-1, 0)$ and $F_2(1, 0)$ be the foci of the ellipse $\frac{x^2}{9}+\frac{y^2}{8}=1$. Suppose a parabola having its vertex at the origin and focus at $F_2$ intersects the ellipse at point $M$ in the first quadrant and at point $N$ in the fourth quadrant.
$(1)$ The orthocentre of the triangle $F_1 M N$ is
$(A)$ $\left(-\frac{9}{10}, 0\right)$ $(B)$ $\left(\frac{2}{3}, 0\right)$ $(C)$ $\left(\frac{9}{10}, 0\right)$ $(D)$ $\left(\frac{2}{3}, \sqrt{6}\right)$
$(2)$ If the tangents to the ellipse at $M$ and $N$ meet at $R$ and the normal to the parabola at $M$ meets the $x$-axis at $Q$,then the ratio of the area of the triangle $M Q R$ to the area of the quadrilateral $M F_1 N F_2$ is
$(A)$ $3: 4$ $(B)$ $4: 5$ $(C)$ $5: 8$ $(D)$ $2: 3$